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Writing the Personal Sex Essay (New York, NY)--CANCELLED


  • Catapult 740 1140 Broadway New York, NY, 10001 United States (map)

This class has been cancelled due to travel concerns associated with the coronavirus outbreak, but it will be available in an online workshop format Wednesdays from May 13-July 1. Register here.

Saturday, March 21 and Sunday, March 22 from 11:00pm-5:00pm

Cost: $249

All too often, our sexual experiences--or just talking honestly about sex and sexuality at all—are dismissed as TMI. In this smart, introspective, and bawdy two-day intensive, writers will explore what their personal stories have to offer the world, and how best to share them. We'll open with an interactive conversation about the sex culture we live in and how this shapes the stories we tell (or don't). Using activities adapted from public health to broaden our understanding of the complexity of our sexualities, we'll mine our own histories for narratives we may have forgotten, or may never have noticed.

Although the term “sex writing” calls to mind the sex scene, this course places its focus instead on making meaning from our sex lives. During our two days together, we'll tackle craft challenges specific to writing about sexuality--diving into the opportunities provided by narrative distance, considering what authority looks like on the page (including how we might access our own), and processing what it means to write (and publish!) about real people. Beyond simply telling the narrative of what happened on any given night, this intensive helps writers build strong connective tissue between their individual stories and the larger questions about sex with which our culture grapples. 

While writers will be invited to share their work from in-class prompts, we will not be workshopping our own full-length essays together.

Writers should arrive prepared to cultivate a fun, safe, and nonjudgmental atmosphere that is affirming of all sexualities and identities. Straight or queer, cis or trans, abstinent or asexual or sexually active, kinky or vanilla, poly or monogamous-- your stories are important, and you’re welcome in this course. While this class aims to offer a supportive environment for figuring out how to turn stories of sexuality into cultural critique and art, it is not intended to be a support group or provide a replacement for mental healthcare. 

COURSE TAKEAWAYS:

  • A deepened understanding of the sex culture our writing lands in, and how this shapes what we write (and don't)

  • A supportive, sex-positive, and trauma-sensitive community with which to share your writing about sexuality

  • Increased ability to identify the craft choices that might help frame, focus and drive your writing about sexuality

  • Access to an instructor who has provided sexuality education to more than 8,000 people over the last ten years, and who has personal experience with what it means to publish sexually explicit work in high-circulation publications

  • A one-on-one conference with the instructor to discuss your work and chart a path forward

  • Access to Catapult's list of writing opportunities and important submission deadlines, as well as a 10% discount on all future Catapult classes

What if I haven’t had many good experiences with sex because of trauma? See Kati’s response on Instagram.

This class is hosted by Catapult in its New York City location.

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Kati is a passionate sex educator, and she brought a wealth of knowledge into the workshop. She creates a safe space for participants to share their most vulnerable material and fosters lively discussion about sex in our culture and in modern literature. Her workshop was a treat I didn’t know I needed. Sex writing has many facets and nuances, and I am confident approaching it now.
— Libby Horton, Writing the Sex Essay student, Boulder, CO
I loved the structure of the class, bouncing from discussion of this taboo subject— *sex*— into suddenly having a timed writing exercise with a prompt that jump-started ideas. Writing fast and furiously, not having to share, was freeing. When we did share, that was wonderful and wild.
— Patti Gassaway, Writing the Sex Essay Student, Boulder, CO