Filtering by: SEXUALITY

Nov
3
11:00 AM11:00

Writing the Complicated Self at the Portland Book Festival (virtual)

In this 3-hour virtual memoir seminar hosted by Literary Arts and the Portland Book Festival, students will explore how the contradictions in their personalities—the gaps between dirty laundry and grace—are the most interesting space, and how careful and brave craft choices allow us to write into our most gorgeous, complex selves.

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Jun
23
to Jun 25

Jackson Hole Writers Conference: Nonfiction Keynote & Workshop

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Join Kati at the Jackson Hole Writers Conference, where she’ll deliver the Nonfiction Keynote, teach a workshop, and consult on manuscripts. For nearly three decades, the Jackson Hole Writers Conference has brought together writers of all levels from all walks of life to share ideas, hone craft, and form community.

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Owning Your Sexual Story: A Weekend Intensive at New Queens Haven (Accord, NY)
Apr
15
to Apr 18

Owning Your Sexual Story: A Weekend Intensive at New Queens Haven (Accord, NY)

In a world full of sexual trauma, silencing, and shame, writing about sexuality can be intimidating. Yet your experiences carry the medicine we all need. Join writer Katherine Standefer and feminist psychologist Tracy Sidesinger for an intimate, joyful retreat designed to help you tell your sexual story. Dig into desire, improve your sex scenes, organize your experiences, gain skills for safely engaging trauma on the page, and benefit from time to write deeply, with the rare community that only crystallizes when we do the brave, magical work of owning our stories together.

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Tucson Festival of Books: "Our Beating Hearts" Panel with Florence Williams (Tucson, AZ)
Mar
12
10:00 AM10:00

Tucson Festival of Books: "Our Beating Hearts" Panel with Florence Williams (Tucson, AZ)

Our beating hearts are easy to take for granted until they no longer work. Join authors Katherine Standefer and Florence Williams at Tucson Festival of Books as they share their journeys into healthcare and science to heal their broken hearts.

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Writing the Complicated Self at the Portland Book Festival (virtual)
Nov
11
10:00 AM10:00

Writing the Complicated Self at the Portland Book Festival (virtual)

In this 3-hour virtual memoir seminar hosted by Literary Arts and the Portland Book Festival, students will explore how the contradictions in their personalities—the gaps between dirty laundry and grace—are the most interesting space, and how careful and brave craft choices allow us to write into our most gorgeous, complex selves.

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Writing Trauma in Traumatic Times with StoryStudio Chicago (virtual)
Oct
30
10:00 AM10:00

Writing Trauma in Traumatic Times with StoryStudio Chicago (virtual)

Although writing can be healing, crafting and publishing our most difficult stories can make trauma worse. In this 3-hour workshop with author and trauma specialist Katherine Standefer, learn how the physiological processes of trauma and shame interact with a writing process. Together, we’ll discuss some of the embodied blocks writers experience, touch into the craft problems common to this material, and explore tools for moving forward at the right time and with the right pace.

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Writing the Sun Card at the Ninth House Shop (virtual)
Aug
11
6:00 PM18:00

Writing the Sun Card at the Ninth House Shop (virtual)

After a long, disorienting night, we blink into the light of a new day. In this 2-hour workshop, we’ll continue our journey through the Third Line of the tarot with The Sun card, asking ourselves: After destruction, deep tending, and shadow work, how have we transformed? Together, we’ll write into the celebrations, joys and successes of The Sun card, as well as the tentativeness we often feel when moving back into illumination. The Sun card announces: The light has returned.

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Writing the Complicated Self with Hugo House (virtual)
Jun
26
1:00 PM13:00

Writing the Complicated Self with Hugo House (virtual)

In this 3-hour virtual memoir seminar hosted by Hugo House, students will explore how the contradictions in their personalities—the gaps between dirty laundry and grace—are the most interesting space, and how careful and brave craft choices allow us to write into our most gorgeous, complex selves.

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Writing Trauma in Traumatic Times at The Porch (virtual)
Jun
17
6:00 PM18:00

Writing Trauma in Traumatic Times at The Porch (virtual)

Learn how the physiological processes of trauma and shame interact with a writing process. Discuss some of the embodied blocks writers experience, touch into the craft problems common to traumatic material, and explore tools for moving forward at the right time and with the right pace.

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Writing the Moon Card at the Ninth House Shop (virtual)
Jun
16
6:00 PM18:00

Writing the Moon Card at the Ninth House Shop (virtual)

At night, shapes lengthen and shadows grow. We can’t quite be sure of what we’re seeing. In this 2-hour writing workshop, we’ll continue our journey through the Third Line of the tarot, moving from the gentle self-tending of the Star card into the void energy of The Moon, noticing the dreams, visions, delusions, spells, madnesses and shadow work beckoning us. Moon energy is rarely comfortable, but it offers an essential invitation into spiritual mystery. The Moon card reminds us: There is a way to see in the dark.

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Writing the Star Card at the Ninth House Shop (virtual)
May
25
6:00 PM18:00

Writing the Star Card at the Ninth House Shop (virtual)

Following the fires of the Tower card, the Star brings rain and rest. In this 2-hour writing workshop hosted by the Ninth House Shop, we’ll write into the raw moments after crisis, touch into our experiences of gentleness, identify what needs grieving, and step into a faith that can lead us forward. The Star card wants us to know: There is a way to come home to ourselves.

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Writing the Tower Card at the Ninth House Shop (virtual)
May
5
6:00 PM18:00

Writing the Tower Card at the Ninth House Shop (virtual)

All of us live within structures—our days shaped by jobs, families, ideologies and laws. With its images of lightning, fire, and bodies falling from the sky, the Tower card makes clear: What has long stood is coming down. In this 2-hour writing workshop hosted by The Ninth House Shop, write into your relationship with destruction, revolution, and disaster, and touch into the Tower-season clarity, clearings, and awakenings that can point you toward what is next. The Tower card wants us to know: Starting over can be the truest gift.

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Writing the Devil Card at The Ninth House Shop (virtual)
Apr
1
6:00 PM18:00

Writing the Devil Card at The Ninth House Shop (virtual)

With its connotations of addiction and shadow, pulling The Devil card in a tarot spread can make our stomachs twist. Yet beyond this spike of shame lies The Devil’s true promise: what tarot teacher Lindsay Mack calls “transformative liberation.” In this two-hour writing workshop, we’ll familiarize ourselves with the traditional meanings of The Devil card, explore our inner saboteur, and write into the risk-taking, pleasure, defiance, and sensuality that are our birthright. Through writing prompts, card-pulls, and sharing opportunities, The Devil card will help us commit: we will serve no master but our own souls.

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The Wild & Holy Moment: Thyrsus Office Hours on Writing Trauma, Illness, & Sexuality (CANCELLED)
Mar
5
5:30 PM17:30

The Wild & Holy Moment: Thyrsus Office Hours on Writing Trauma, Illness, & Sexuality (CANCELLED)

In this 90-minute gathering, writers have the opportunity to ask Kati their questions— whether craft questions about writing trauma, illness, and sexuality; the way a writing life intersects spiritual invitations; or what it means to put our work in the world at this moment.

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The Other Side of Fire: Trauma Writing As Initiation & Craft (virtual)
Feb
13
to Feb 14

The Other Side of Fire: Trauma Writing As Initiation & Craft (virtual)

Telling our stories of trauma can be excruciating, and the process—if not undertaken carefully—can further damage our nervous systems. But for some of us the task is spiritually mandatory, demanding that we lean forward into a process not just of drafting, but of transforming. In this two-day online workshop, we’ll explore what it looks like to surrender to a writing process that is operating on multiple planes, while digging into the specifics of crafting inventive and powerful art from difficult stories.

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Trauma Writing As Initiation at Roots to Resilience Summit (virtual)
Dec
4
7:00 PM19:00

Trauma Writing As Initiation at Roots to Resilience Summit (virtual)

Telling our stories of trauma can be excruciating, and the process—if not undertaken carefully—can damage our nervous systems. But for some of us the task is spiritually mandatory. In this 1 hour workshop as part of The Yoga Seed Collective's Roots to Resilience Summit, we’ll explore what it looks like to surrender to a writing process that is operating on multiple planes.

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Unlocking Tough Stories (Denver, CO)--CANCELLED
May
30
to May 31

Unlocking Tough Stories (Denver, CO)--CANCELLED

Our most powerful stories can be the most brutal to write, leaving us frustrated, traumatized, and stuck. What gets in the way? How can we push forward without damaging our mental and physical health? In this 2-day weekend intensive at The Attic in Denver, we’ll gain an understanding of how the physiological processes of trauma interact with a writing practice, explore craft challenges specific to trauma, and practice owning on the page our complicated, contradictory selves.

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Writing the Personal Sex Essay (online)-- SOLD OUT
May
13
to Jul 1

Writing the Personal Sex Essay (online)-- SOLD OUT

All too often, our sexual experiences are dismissed as TMI. In this smart, introspective, and bawdy eight-week online workshop, writers will explore what their personal stories have to offer the world, and how best to share them. We’ll explore the sex culture we live in and dig into the craft challenges specific to writing about sex, including narrative distance, authority on the page, and what it means to write (and publish) about real people. Beyond simply telling the story of what happened, we’ll work to build strong connective tissue between individual sexual stories and the larger questions about sex our culture grapples with.

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PORN: Writing Into the Intent to Arouse (Tucson, AZ)--CANCELLED
May
1
to May 3

PORN: Writing Into the Intent to Arouse (Tucson, AZ)--CANCELLED

Despite the general abundance of loud opinions about pornography, rarely do we see nonfiction writers engaging it vulnerably through rich memoir or essaying. In this weekend intensive, we’ll probe into the promise and problems of porn, coming together to read what already exists and to write what’s next, creatively examining how porn intersects our lives, what the “intent to arouse” looks like on the page and in visual media, and what arouses us into living better.

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4th Annual I Sing the Body Electric : A Literary Bacchanal (Tucson, AZ)--CANCELLED
Apr
26
2:00 PM14:00

4th Annual I Sing the Body Electric : A Literary Bacchanal (Tucson, AZ)--CANCELLED

"If you can't talk about something, you can't think about something," writer Eula Biss told Krista Tippett. Join me in April as alumni of my classes-- writers of sex, illness, and trauma-- read together for the 4th Annual Literary Bacchanal on the patio at Tucson Hop Shop.

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Writing the Trauma Essay (New York, NY)--CANCELLED
Apr
18
to Apr 19

Writing the Trauma Essay (New York, NY)--CANCELLED

Writing can be healing. But writing can also re-traumatize, making it difficult to tell the stories that shape us. In this two-day nonfiction intensive in New York City, we’ll gain an understanding of how the physiological processes of trauma interact with a writing practice, explore craft challenges specific to trauma, and practice owning on the page our complicated, contradictory selves.

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Writing Into Your Sacred Sexuality Through Archetype Cards (Tucson, AZ)--CANCELLED
Apr
15
to Apr 23

Writing Into Your Sacred Sexuality Through Archetype Cards (Tucson, AZ)--CANCELLED

In a society where sexuality is often demonized or treated as inappropriate, it's easy as spiritual seekers to separate, sideline, or outright ignore our erotic selves. In this four-session class, we’ll explore the four archetypes all humans live out— The Victim, The Prostitute, The Saboteur, and The Child—through deep writing prompts and tarot draws, reconnecting with our full power and pleasure as spiritual, sexual beings.

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Non-Fiction Writing Workshop: The Sex Scene (Salt Lake City, UT) --CANCELLED
Apr
4
10:00 AM10:00

Non-Fiction Writing Workshop: The Sex Scene (Salt Lake City, UT) --CANCELLED

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How do we write sex well, and what keeps us from writing it at all? In this 8-hour intensive, participants will consider the role of the sex scene in storytelling, explore how the culture we live in shapes what we write, examine what the “intent to arouse” means on the page, and notice differences in syntax between pornography, erotica, romance novels, and literary sex writing. Along the way, participants will gain a greater comfort discussing, writing, and publishing sensual and sexual writing.

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Writing the Personal Sex Essay (New York, NY)--CANCELLED
Mar
21
to Mar 22

Writing the Personal Sex Essay (New York, NY)--CANCELLED

All too often, our sexual experiences are dismissed as TMI. In this smart, introspective, and bawdy two-day intensive, writers will explore what their personal stories have to offer the world, and how best to share them. We’ll explore the sex culture we live in and dig into the craft challenges specific to writing about sex, including narrative distance, authority on the page, and what it means to write (and publish) about real people. Beyond simply telling the story of what happened, we’ll work to build strong connective tissue between individual sexual stories and the larger questions about sex our culture grapples with.

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I Sing the Body Electric : A Literary Bacchanal (San Antonio, TX)-- CANCELLED
Mar
4
9:15 PM21:15

I Sing the Body Electric : A Literary Bacchanal (San Antonio, TX)-- CANCELLED

"If you can't talk about something, you can't think about something," writer Eula Biss told Krista Tippett. Join me in San Antonio in March as alumni of my classes and the authors they’ve loved-- writers of sex, illness, and trauma-- read together at the first national Literary Bacchanal, hosted near the annual AWP conference.

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Writing the Devil Card (Tucson, AZ)
Jan
15
7:00 PM19:00

Writing the Devil Card (Tucson, AZ)

With its connotations of addiction and shadow, pulling The Devil card in a tarot spread can make our stomachs twist. Yet beyond this spike of shame lies The Devil’s true promise: what tarot teacher Lindsay Mack calls “transformative liberation.” In this two-hour writing workshop, we’ll familiarize ourselves with the traditional meanings of The Devil card, explore our inner saboteur, and write into the risk-taking, pleasure, defiance, and sensuality that are our birthright. Through writing prompts, card-pulls, and sharing opportunities, The Devil card will help us commit: In 2020, we will serve no master but our own souls.

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Penning the Nasty: Explorations Into Writing Sex (Seattle, WA)
Nov
16
to Nov 17

Penning the Nasty: Explorations Into Writing Sex (Seattle, WA)

In this 12-hour intensive, participants will consider the role of the sex scene in storytelling, discuss the politics and ethics of writing sex, and explore the differences between pornography, erotica, and literary sex writing—in the end gaining greater comfort discussing, writing, and publishing sensual and sexual writing.

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Owning the Nasty: Writing the Personal Sex Essay (Tucson, AZ)
Nov
8
to Nov 10

Owning the Nasty: Writing the Personal Sex Essay (Tucson, AZ)

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How do we make meaning from our sexual experiences? What do our personal stories have to offer the world, and what is the best way to share them? In this bawdy, smart, & introspective weekend intensive, participants will write about their own sexual experiences, considering what authority looks like on the page, diving into the opportunities provided by narrative distance, and practicing building strong connective tissue between individual sexual stories and the larger questions about sex with which our culture grapples.

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Writing the Trauma Essay (New York, NY)
Sep
7
to Sep 8

Writing the Trauma Essay (New York, NY)

Writing can be healing. But writing can also re-traumatize, making it difficult to tell the stories that shape us. In this two-day nonfiction intensive in New York City, we’ll gain an understanding of how the physiological processes of trauma interact with a writing practice, explore craft challenges specific to trauma, and practice owning on the page our complicated, contradictory selves.

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Penning the Nasty (the tender, the sweet): Explorations Into Writing Sexuality (Tucson, AZ)
May
1
to May 29

Penning the Nasty (the tender, the sweet): Explorations Into Writing Sexuality (Tucson, AZ)

How do we write sex? And if we don't, why not? In this five-week nonfiction workshop at Tucson Hop Shop, participants will consider the role of the sex scene in storytelling, explore the relationship between sensuality and lyricism, discuss the politics and ethics of writing sex, and write out of the unique terrain of their own bodies.

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